Time:

They say "time heals all" but how much time is required to heal???? Like for example, I can “heal" very fast when I want to forget the pain of the wound, but the scar is still there. When I really want to heal, it can take weeks, months and some wounds have never even healed and it’s been years. Sometimes it’s not as easy to let go of the past pains but they say "the past is in the past"... I used to modify that one "the past is in the past til it bites you in the ass." I kinda let that one go but sometimes it does come back to haunt you.... that’s why now I try to handle my business so nothing can come back and bite me, but its not that easy....

So what happens when you are the cause of someone's pain and how do you help them heal when they don't want to or see the need for healing?? Do you just leave them alone with open wounds to grow maggots?? I hope not... I tried to help some one heal and I hope it worked but after a while a person has to be able to look with in themselves and see what is really the cause of their aching, because sometimes the responsible person is themselves....